I personally cant believe that you think that putting that behaviour in front of the your own pride and integrity is a lesson you should be teaching kids.
I don't know that anyone is saying that. No one wants that, but isn't that what marriage is about? The commitment to stick it out when it gets hard? A vow that is only kept when it is easy, and not when it is hardest to keep, is no vow at all.
I get your overall point but really don't agree with bailing out on marriage because the person isn't making you happy. Don't we always say around here that you are responsible for your own happiness?
You made some strong points too:
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David, you have probably thought about it - but what does being close mean? The fact is you haven't. You are looking for excuses not to make a strong decisive move - hoping for a miracle that will mean you don't have to do it.
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David, you have probably thought about it - but what does being close mean? The fact is you haven't. You are looking for excuses not to make a strong decisive move - hoping for a miracle that will mean you don't have to do it.
H 34 W 29 BD 3/12/18 Divorce Busted Spring 19
It is not things that bother us, but the stories we tell ourselves about things.
