Hoosjim's 16th. Looks like we're piecing, folks.

[Twofeet]

Hoosjim, why do the nurses have a thing for this Dr.? hypergamy.

Are they having wine on premise after hours? Is this a hospital owned facility or private practice?
I only ask because if there is a policy against alcohol on campus the W might be best to stay away.

You are years ahead of me in experience as far as all this DB goes, but my 2 cents would be this. I would be in your same shoes and say this is not a recommend activity for her to participate in especially because of your shared history and rocky but currently piecing marriage. However, I don't think you want to come across as jealous or controlling. Maybe when you and her are having intimate conversations about your R you could be open and honest about how it makes you feel? You know not I don't want you doing this or I don't like this, rather I feel insecure about this for reason x, y, z. Maybe consider what you are willing to give up to have your needs met as far as this Dr sitch goes. See what her feedback is on that.

That is all I got. I am just an amateur talking to a pro.