I actually didn't agree to delay it. She filed the motion to dismiss it on her own, without my help or permission. I still have time to respond, I'm just not sure what the correct way to do that is. I called an attorney's office for advice, they recommended I move to enforce, but I literally can't find those forms anywhere, and there is ZERO way that I can afford an attorney, and my income is "too high" to get free legal aid.
I would like other perspectives as well. On one hand, this will absolutely destroy her if I pursue it (and while I know I say it hurts to see her hurting...that's true...it does...but I also know she brought it on herself, so I have no issue making this happen if I need to...but that doesn't make it hurt less, and hurting doesn't change my course of action).
To clear it up, I feel remorse for having to be the legal equivalent of executioner, sympathy because this IS my W, but also justified because it's what needs to be done. Just because I feel like a nice guy doesn't mean I will be one when it comes to protecting S.
Definitely need as much feedback as possible as quickly as I can get it because the legal clock is ticking.
