He is throwing fits and having a very rough time emotionally. He is trying to temp check, lure you in, hurt you all in the course of a couple text messages. I wouldn't have responded to that, or maybe just say "No". That is disgusting behavior.
Continue to go out and enjoy life with your friends.
H 34 W 29 BD 3/12/18 Divorce Busted Spring 19
It is not things that bother us, but the stories we tell ourselves about things.