What you said wasn't bad. It let's him know that he is still not off of the hook. Would it have been better not to say it? Sure. But toothpaste out of the tube can't be put back in.

Do not send him a text. Do not ask him questions. No matter how much you point out that what he is doing is wrong won't change anything.

Just let it lie. Give him the time and the space he needs to figure his stuff out. As I told you before. Whether he chooses her or you is HIS choice. Whether or not you are okay no matter what he chooses is YOUR choice.

Choose to be okay no matter what. (That doesn't mean it won't hurt and you won't grieve. But you will have to do that whether you choose to be okay or not.)

M(53), W(54),D(19)
M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017
Ring and Piecing since March 2018