Equalzr's WW. Still accepting advice! Pt 3

[equalzr]

I feel you, had the first real moment last night when my WW wanted to have a R conversation. I let her know her actions in the last 5 months are hurting the whole house. She denied responsibility and beckoned S14 who told her how it is. I too was accused of poisoning him when all I have ever said was that that was your mom and she is sorting things out in her life give her time. My S is 14, he's not dumb, when mom is away every weekend he knows something is up.

I didn't take any of that BS either, I drew the line and said you need to own up to your sitch and the effects its having as well as your role in our M if it has been that miserable.

I want to unload both barrels (verbally) on her so bad for doing such a s**ty thing to not only me, but our family. She had a husband who was always willing to change to try and make her happy. Many of the situations she was unhappy about were ones she is responsible for creating, not to mention she neglected me just as well.

I told my S that my W had worked really hard, took great care of us, and now she needed a break and we need to love her and be patient. Pretty horrible things to say right??? My S is older too, so he can figure out things too. Sadly he gives me that look like arent you going to do something to stop this. Makes me feel pretty small.