Ovrrnbw I had an enjoyable evening with my girlfriends last night. Then, at 9 pm I get a text message from him that says "What are you doing? Want to f**k?" OMG. In the three months we've separated he's never said something like that to me. I'm sure it was driving him crazy that he didn't know who I was with and I wasn't texting him begging him to come back or spend time with me. I probably should not have responded but I was afraid he would get angry if I didn't respond so I replied with "No. I'm out with friends." His response was "Too bad. I already have plan B coming over." I rolled my eyes at that one. I'm pretty sure he didn't have a plan B coming over while the kids were sleeping.
His behavior is giving me anxiety. In doing the 180 and GAL I had hoped he'd turn into the kind, loving husband he once was but instead he's turned into a passive aggressive frat boy. Will it change? Will he turn a corner or will he actually just get worse as this continues? I have plans again tonight with friends and I'm bracing for another round of text messages from him.