I dunno, but I know db'ing has been working for me a lot better than pursuing and badgering. I had no hope until I came here and started listening as best I could.

H-50
W-48
T-19
M -18
S23, S14
BD - 5/9/2018
OM discovered 5/10/2018

In house sep - 8/18/2018
Rope drop 2/15/2019
R'ing since 3/15/2019