Lots of people get back together. A relative of mine was apart from her husband for 12 years but got back together again... but of course lots of people don't...
Do you really want to spend the next 12 years waiting for her to change her mind?
The point is that you need to get on with your own life as if she is gone and never coming back, because she is gone. What you want, or unfortunately even what your kids want, is irrelevant.
The sooner you let her go, the sooner you can start to heal.
W 34 Me 42 Married 7 years together 8 0 kids 1 beloved dog BD 4/6/2018 I moved out 4/7/2018 I moved back in alone 8/05/2018 I file 3/06/2019 D official 5/7/2019
