but then speak about giving her more time - as if she is going to wake up one morning and change her mind. It’s a fantasy. Its not happening.
Lots of people get back together. A relative of mine was apart from her husband for 12 years but got back together again... but of course lots of people don't...
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There is no dilemma. The only dilemma is you thinking you can change things.
The dilemma is what I decide to do. I was done with it a couple of days ago and ready to file and searched for houses a long way away but then my kids gave me lovely hugs, said they enjoyed our meal with W, and said they wanted our family together again.
W is distraught missing them so much when they are with me. W is an intelligent woman but her behaviour is all over the place. Maybe one day she will recover and realise her mistakes, or maybe not.
