Blackmac, you are having a bad case of Nice Guy Syndrome. Stop feeling sorry for her. Remember, believe nothing she says. Acting pathetic is her way of trying to manipulate you. Remember, she chose this, NOT YOU.

I am still not sure why you agreed to delaying the D. I know this is DBing, but sometimes D is part of that process. Again, I think it was the full custody thing. She is biding her time trying to get out from under the mediation agreement. Do not trust her. Stay diligent. Also be sure to do nothing that she can use to her advantage.

I am torn on the D, whether the right thing to do was to go along with its withdrawal. I'd like to get other perspectives on it but my gut says it was a mistake.

M(53), W(54),D(19)
M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017
Ring and Piecing since March 2018