I see so many sob stories here about WAS and so many folks falling into the trap. Some of you have no hope, your spouse is going to leave you no matter what. If that's the case it doesn't matter, write it off and GAL, because you are powerless to change it. If you can change it great, good for you, catch it early on, do your best, that's all you can do. If you can't do that get out and live folks, live your life, make the best of it, because it's short. Let your WAS smother in their affairs, and they will. Let them seek that short term gratification, then stick their heads over the fence and realize the grass isn't greener. GAL and live people, you deserve it, disconnect, it's not easy, but you can. And when you can let go you will be free, and you will have your life, and love it, and embrace it, and live. My advice to all of you.
