Hi Kech,

I know that feeling. The loneliness, your mind wandering, wanting your spouse to come home and tell you it's going to be alright. But that is a fantasy.

The OW? She's a real piece of work. I wouldn't worry about a piece of garbage like that. It's not worth your time, not even a second. If your husband can treat you like this, don't give him a second thought (easy,right?) and for godsakes don't tell him you miss him or anything else like that. That will embolden him, let him know he has power over you. Find something to do to take your mind off of him and GAL as best as you can.

If he's not reaching out like on Friday, that's ok. Plenty of people go longer than that without hearing from their WS. I know that doesn't make it easier for you, but maybe it's some perspective. As for him falling for the OW, let it go. That's a house built on real solid ground *eyeroll*...


H 34
W 29
BD 3/12/18
Divorce Busted Spring 19

It is not things that bother us, but the stories we tell ourselves about things.