Steve is gonna give you a spankin in the morning, you just sit tight!
I agree, the R talk is too much for her, or she is acting. Either way, stop it.
As far as her fantasy, I think that's gross. I couldn't handle it. I don't know what your opinion is on that kind of stuff. I can't share. If you can't, you tell her. Putting it off is no good. And say it in a calm, clear manner.
H 34 W 29 BD 3/12/18 Divorce Busted Spring 19
It is not things that bother us, but the stories we tell ourselves about things.