Take my advice with a grain of salt, i dont have any qualifications to give anyone advice. I dont know if your W cares or not, but id be hesitant to add that your D14 follows your lead. That opens you up to blame down the road when something else goes wrong in their R. I may be thinking of the way my sitch usually goes, but just food for thought. If your W is anything like mine, youll get blamed for any and everything.
