Yes, there are success stories where the divorce was withdrawn. Gordie is my favorite.
Screaming is probably not a good way to get your point across. If you're at a breaking point, you need to deal with your emotions and decide what you want to do. Him having a normal dinner is great...for him. He gets to enjoy the life he wants with you without the commitment.
The book might be beneficial for him to read, but do not show it to him. Cadet posts that on the first page. It's for you, not him. If he cared, he'd have found the book, same as you. I highlighted stuff too back in April, thinking if my WW just reads this, she'll change her mind. Yea, no. Not happening. That's pressure, that's pursuit.
H 34 W 29 BD 3/12/18 Divorce Busted Spring 19
It is not things that bother us, but the stories we tell ourselves about things.
