Well, today is the day. H will be gone when I get back from work. The weekend was so weird. It was like nothing was going to happen. D19 was home from college for the weekend. She knows nothing. We decided not to say anything yet because she and S21 won’t be home again until Thanksgiving. Anyway, had a nice dinner out with H and D on Friday night. Saturday H and I went to our usual exercise class, and in the afternoon he asked if I wanted to go out to watch football. We had a nice time. Last night did our usual movie with a glass of wine.
So this morning I hugged him, and just said “I hope you find what your looking for”. Because I really do. He’s very broken, and I hope he finds a way to heal. I know I can’t help him.
So, I’ve got several things planned this week, and am booking things for the upcoming weekends. I’m truly GAL. I guess that’s all I can do for now.
I’ve been reading a lot on these boards about the WAS, but most seem to have OM or OW in the picture. I’m curious if the “rules” of DBing apply equally to a situation such as mine? I’m going along with the assumption of Yes. As I’ve said, I am GAL, but haven’t been regular in detachment, probably because we are friends. Need to work on that. He plans to come on the weekend to do the yard work. I think I’ll be busy at that time.
