thank you sia! rightfully so we left behinds we fight so hard to keep the ground we knew and were comfortable with underneath of us at all costs. at some point though (and that point is different for each of us) i think we just get to enough is enough. i completely agree with you on the need for this madness and the why, but really these are unanswerable. again in my case my W's actions help moved me along much quicker. if she had been open to talking, yo-yo'ing on her feelings, etc i would NOT be where i am now. there's a healing heart song out there with the lyric "But that clock on the wall will cure it all, Even though that ain't how it seems" that's the simple truth, we just each have different clocks. thank you for your kind words and prayers! my same to you and your family!
