That's like four straight days she's called talking about the divorce. It makes me sad every time, but I guess it helps the detachment. She wants us to tell our daughters that the divorce was mutual between us. I told her that I would not do that. I told her that I would not deceive our daughters to protect her from her decision. Plus, I think knowing their father didn't fight for their family would affect their future relationships with men. Portraying to the girls a different image of their father than the truth isn't good for them. I will be the lighthouse of truth.