Well, WW showed up yesterday and ruined my plans of couch surfing. We ended up (mostly) rebuilding the retaining wall which was good to get done with the hard part. I had thought about leaving when she got there, but ultimately was too lazy to get up. I made some dinner as it got dark. Set a plate out for her. She was all like "I didn't know if any was for me" when I told her to get a pork steak. So I pointed out the plate and fork/knife/napkin I put out for her.
I was super tired by the time I finished eating. W cleaned the dog and cleaned up dinner, for that I thanked her.
She got into bed with me to watch a show and I gave her a look and said "I'm going to bed." The implication being that she needed to get out. This is me being NGS. I need to just tell her, "hey, get out of this bed. We don't share a bed anymore. You chose someone else. Goodbye." Except in fewer words if possible. Then she wanted to talk and show me stuff. But I was tired as hell and didn't engage much.
And I just wish I would have capitalized on her big lie from a week ago and asked her to move out. I don't really want her to get out - duh, for all you guys following my sitch. But it would have been a good time to show what I won't put up with.
Advice or thoughts?
H 34 W 29 BD 3/12/18 Divorce Busted Spring 19
It is not things that bother us, but the stories we tell ourselves about things.