why did you establish this boundary in the first place? Now, do a pros and cons list of letting the boundary go and post it here.
I think you know the best thing already. It's ok to want to reestablish that connection, but I don't know if letting her come and go from the marital home as she pleases is the thing to do.
H 34 W 29 BD 3/12/18 Divorce Busted Spring 19
It is not things that bother us, but the stories we tell ourselves about things.
