Hero, you seem like you are in good shape moving forward. You are well prepared and studied for what you need to do next. Any specific questions?

My general advice is to continue to detach. GAL like a mad man! Oh, and GAL like a madman. Did I say to GAL like a madman?

Seriously, you need to stay busy. Keep your mind off it. Give her time and space to think about whether this is what she really wants.

One last thing, we often talk about the monkey not jumping from one branch until they've identified another branch that will support them. Are you sure there isn't an OM?

Hang in there and keep posting!


M(53), W(54),D(19)
M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017
Ring and Piecing since March 2018