Thanks so much for the update. It is truly invaluable for many of to hear how hard R is even when both parties want it to work. Your honesty and openness are greatly appreciated.
It seems like so much of the success of any R, a new one or the old one, is predicated on individual, personal growth. If we aren't in a good place for ourselves we can't be as loving a partner for any spouse. You are walking on the right path and illuminating the way for many others. Like you said, this work of personal growth is never-ending, but it is the only way.
Best of luck with everything. There are no guarantees but the honesty and ability to communicate effectively between you and your W bode well. Trust the process.
W 34 Me 42 Married 7 years together 8 0 kids 1 beloved dog BD 4/6/2018 I moved out 4/7/2018 I moved back in alone 8/05/2018 I file 3/06/2019 D official 5/7/2019
