Advice please (I hope I am writing this in the right place this time Job). Today my H starts his new job abroad. Normally I would send him a good luck card but I haven’t & I am not planning to text. I feel bad because that’s what a friend would do but I’m sure the OW is more than compensating. The “friendship” is all one way but I’ve never not been there for him at the start of a job in the last 32 years. Am I doing a 180 or am I just being spiteful? I don’t want to lose the friendship with him, although ultimately I think it’s inevitable but I do want him to feel what loss means. Am I doing right or not? Comments appreciated. Thank you.
M 1986 ILYBINILWY Jan 2016 Found out about affair May 2016. H 57yrs. OW 23 yrs younger. Separated Sept 2016
