Friday night is looming again but I'm not anticipating much action as W is leaving to stay with MIL early Saturday morning so there will be a lot of packing and other stress. I do intend to initiate though and if the "pressure" word comes up I will make sure that she understands that I do not consider that I am pressuring her and that the "pressure" entirely belongs to her and is for her to choose to deal with in her own way. Does that sound OK to you differentiated guys? SD
