Equalzr's WW. Still accepting advice! Pt 3

[equalzr]

My S doesnt even want much to do with my W anymore. Shes treated him like crap, and hes done the same for quite some time, but hes the kid and shes the adult. She should be willing to keep working on their relationship. She told me the other day that she removed him from her life insurance policy because he treats her bad(he does). Still not right imo.

S doesnt want to talk with her, sit by her, or anything. I stay out of it now because she accused me of talking bad about her to S(never did), when i was really being supportive early on. After that, i said no more. She even snooped through S's phone looking for messages from me bad mouthing her(all she found was one of me telling son that she loves him. She never mentioned that to me....of course.