To ovrnnbw. I am currently rereading the book for the 2nd time.

By verbal abuse, I mean I use to make slight cracks at her constantly. I use to grab her tummy and say things like "You didn't have this when we 1st met" I also use to say things like "You were the one who was interested in me 1st and if I would have just left you alone I still be happy and not having to worry about this whole mess" I also use to tease her about her mom constantly. Since her mom had three separate baby daddy, I use to say "I know not to leave my dad around your mom"

Little by little I dug myself in a whole and since I thought I wasn't cheating on her or physically abusive that we were fine. I had no idea how much damage I was doing. I also became very needy and always wanted to be touchy with her and I didn't understand that even though we were married that didn't mean I had the right to be like that.

Thanks for all the help guys!