So did some GAL activities this weekend. Met a couple of new friends recently that have gone through D, we all met up for burgers and took our kids to a ballgame Friday night. Was great to connect with guys that have gone thru this struggle and see them come out on the other side much happier in their reality.

Saturday spent all day grooming dog and then steam cleaned carpets. Took S to movie and pizza.

Today church and then taking S to find his “awesome Halloween costume” and gym.

WAW continues to try to gain access into house thru various methods or petty reasons. Latest was her claims that yard needed to be cleaned up more and would need access to garage code, etc. I maintained that was a boundary I would not concede. Learned from neighbors she regularly seeks them out to discuss my whereabouts etc.

WAW attorney said she would be coming to home Sat. at 2. I said I wouldn’t grant access then notated the constant attempts to come over and stalking with neighbors. She has accessed house without my consent in the past and took important documents and various items. May need to consider TRO if it continues.

A month ago I would have journaled as to the what and why my wife was acting like this. Now I just don’t give a $h1T. I gotta live my life the way I want to and ensure S and I will be awesome.

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Me - 38 W-37
S6
M 10 years T 13yrs
BD 3/18
W moves out 4/18
W files 7/18

Never waste a good crisis