Is this a normal response to a 180?

[equalzr]

Hi equalzr. Did your W start this behavior after you started doing a 180? Before I started doing it and was begging and pleading for him to come back he was actually encouraging me to date. He even told me to start a Tinder profile and said the idea of me with another man was "hot." He still says this but then he adds on his passive aggressive comments about being sure I'm getting laid. When I tell him I'm not he calls me a liar. The more he acts like this the less I feel like I want to reconcile.

Yes my W started after 180's and me GAL. Everything they do is about selfishness and easing their guilt. The one thing they do NOT want to do is be confronted with their actions. Dont take anything they do or say seriously, they are NOT being rational or realistic at all. Do not let them make you doubt your own sanity, they are the ones living in lala land.

My W lied to me about everything for a long long time. It took me over a year to realize that yes i contributed to some things in our M that werent as good as they could have been, but what she was doing was 100% on her. I realize now that my W did everything she could to get me to file for a D. I didnt take the bait, because i dont believe in it. She will have to live with what shes done to our family and she will have to take responsibility for D to our S. We both made some mistakes along the way, but W will have to own up to A and D eventually. Sorry to ramble about my sitch.

He only wants you to be with another man to soothe his guilt. Do NOT fall for it. This is his mess, let him lay in it. Take the time you have to become the best cdd1976 you can be.