Is this a normal response to a 180?

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Wow O Wow. Classic projection. I've been there done that and then some. He's having an affair, and it would make him feel better if you did too.

BUT, in person, he's charming and different. Mkay yea. I don't get the wishy washy bull stuff...

He's all over the place b/c of your 180. That's ok. Kind of a positive really. Stay mysterious. He lost the right to knowing what you're doing when he started his affair. So you are out with friend. ALWAYS. What you are doing is no business of his.

Don't antagonize, but you don't have to respond to all his stuff. Sounds like you are busy moving on.

And you're right, him thinking you are moved on will help make it real for him and help decide what he ultimately wants. Wait til Monday, we'll get a few more opinions. You are so strong and wise. I wish I knew right away what you did.

Keep reading, keep on.