Thanks neffer. Goal is being patient and building slowly. Had a good phone convo earlier. Date plans we’d. She wants to get dressed up for me she says. Talked about boundaries no more than one night together in a row. Plans to hang 9-12 instead of overnights. She’s nervous and a little scared but I think we have a chance. Going to wait a week or two before bringing up MC build positive momentum first. But she already agreed she’d like to do it. I have IC 10/2 and 10/9 Indiv. Appt with new MC who is a dr and sex therapist.


H: 33 W:32
M: 5 T: 8
D: 4
BD: 6/2017
MO: 6/2017
House sold: 6/28/18
W wants to build friendship / relationship- 9/18
Paying $ support since 7/18.
Physical Reconnect- 10/18
W Starts- IC / MC - 10/18