Husband cheated, left, trying to DB 4

[Ready2Change]

Hi Kech,

Last night is a perfect example of H backing out on responsibility.

This is where reducing confusion comes in.

This is where clarification comes in.


Even I am am unclear on your parenting arrangements.

Tuesdays, Thursdays,Fridays, and Sundays. Clarify the times. Plan the EXACT times. Write it on paper (or email) and ask H if this works for him. Ask if he thinks it is enough D time. If he says no, ask him shat other time he wants.

Today, get confirmation on Sunday exchange.

If he gets a pattern of missing D time, you can call his BS.



Every year before Christmas, I have to draw out my understanding of all the exception to the exchanges. I send it to MsR2C to confirm we are on the same page.