If it were me giving myself advice in your sitch. This is what I would suggest.
1) Find someone else to take care of the task that your H has repeatedly failed to do in a timely manner. 2) Get a consultation with an attorney to know exactly what you are up against from a legal standpoint. 3) Stick to a schedule for your D and limit your convos with your H to only your D. 4) During the exchanging of your D, have someone else in your place to be present. This will help limit your interactions with your H. 5) Consistently see your IC, which I am happy that you have an appointment today. 6) Fill your calendar with GAL activities.
I realize this is a tall task, but the inconsistencies in your interactions are causing your emotions to be all over the place. This will help you detach and be consistent.
Hi Kech,
I posted this to you yesterday and think it got lost in your eventful day. I am also sorry that the IC was unhelpful. I wouldn't go back.
By chance, does the church you attend offer any marital counseling? I found that to be the best support for me.
Me:45 ExW:48 M:04/97 3 Bombs & 2 ReCons 1st BD 11/10 D Finalized 4/20 D-16 S-14 Going in one more round when you don't think you can. That's what makes all the difference in life.~Rocky Balboa