W called me today. I missed the call. I texted later to ask if she still wanted to talk, and she sent me several texts regarding the financials of the divorce. She has more debt because her car is newer. My 401K is much higher, and I have Roth IRA and NW Mutual accounts. I've been trying to contact a lawyer that was referred to me, but he hasn't called back.
I don't know completely where I stand on legal grounds financially. It seems okay to help with the financing of her car, but I'm seven years older than my wife (I've been working longer), and I started investing before we met, so I don't know if we legally split the assets 50/50 or they take this into account.
I asked her to send her questions in an email, so I have them documented for the lawyer.
All of this divorce talk from her is affecting me less and less each day. I think I'm hitting the bitterness stage.
