Originally Posted by BluWave
kech, this is frustrating to read. You are getting so much good advice from so many posters.....I am not sure you are taking it
I feel the same way. I then remind myself that I have had 10 years to digest all of this. I tell myself to be patient.


But if we are too patient, you will get hurt.


These are the type of statements to make to H:

"I am not sure how I feel about that right now"
"I was busy"
"Sorry you feel that way"
"I am late, I have to go"
"I need time to process everything"






"What is best for my kids is best for me"
Amor Fati
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