Kech,

This is a defining moment. I hope you see that.

You pull away. He begins pursuing.

Is pulling away working? If so keep doing it.



Originally Posted by job
I wouldn't say one word...he knows that something is up. Just let him stew. Unless the texts are important or about your child/bills, you do not need to respond to every text he sends. Also, I would consider waiting a while before responding to his texts. If he asks what took you so long to respond, say "I have been busy".

When in doubt, do absolutely nothing.


This is stellar advise. This is how you respond. If you do not understand why, please ask questions so we can clarify.





Last edited by Cadet; 09/28/18 07:25 PM. Reason: combine posts
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