"Pressure" is the emotion standing in the way of all efforts to move forward. Even talking about "hugging until relaxed" is pressure let alone doing it. The next time she uses the "P" word I'm going to ask her to precisely describe what it is about my love that is pressure and then suggest that it is a figment of her own imagination and nothing to do with my behaviour. SD who's under immense pressure to finish building the patio - but it doesn't put him off love making!
