I joked around w her in person saying I basically had to ignore you for you to be interested. You said you get butterflies and you love me then the next minute you wonder how you’ll feel when we’re apart.
It's pursuit. You want her to want you all the time.
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basically not going to talk to her.
After everything that just went down, you would increase the wishy washy behavior in your sitch? How will either of you going to stop being this way?
Probably don't need to do the sleepovers, unless you don't have any boundaries. Unless you're comfortable doing limbo forever. She gets to lay next to you without commitment. Let her sleep alone.
H 34 W 29 BD 3/12/18 Divorce Busted Spring 19
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