Trial separation starts next week. We are still good friends, but I know that can change. Anyway, if down the line we do split for good, I would like to explore mediation. Anyone know how this works? Do we each need separate attorneys and then a 3rd one for the mediation? i'm in a no fault state, we have assets, property, and 2 adult kids (in college). If there are links on this site that addressed this, that would be great too.