Last night I asked and she told me she told OM she wasn't going to contact him any more. I wanted to see the texts but she said they were deleted. I am sure because she told him what a great guy he is blah blah blah. Anyway its like she is a new person. Very present and happier.

She said she didn't block him. I said she has to block him across all media and full transparency. She actually said I'll just have to trust her. It was so hard not to laugh in her face. I have access to her phone but not her tablet.

I am guessing this will take some time. It feels like she would but she doesn't want me telling her she has to. I think she might want to go on a mini vacation soon and I want to make my participation contingent upon blocking and full transparency.
What do you all think?

M 55. W 43
T 12. M 8
1st BD 9\16
W moved out 11\16
Recon moved back 2/17
2nd BD 8/12/18