What he is saying is "I want my cake and eat it too."
kech, everything we've been telling you is happening. The anger a couple of weeks ago was the insolent pouting of a child who's cake has been taken away. Then he tried the freezing you out "I'll make her miss me!" approach. When that didn't work now he is trying the breadcrumbs approach.
Stick to the plan.
Ignore FYI messages. REspond to direct questions in as few words as possible. Yes or no questions get yes or no answers.
NO R TALKS! If he starts one in person, listen and validate. (Reread the validation thread.)
You are in a dangerous time here kech. Your willingness to give in this week coupled with his temp checkign breadcrumb throwing has you on the verge, I can feel if, of letting him comeback before he is committed and before he accepts boundaries. IF you do, you will only be putting off the inevitable, and all of the pain you've come through will have to be gone through again.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
