Good Morning! Just getting caught up on your recent posts. Yes I would look for a new IC, I have been seeing mine for 4 months and never once has advice been given to take an action like that. My IC is there to interpret what I am feeling and thinking and offer support and to help me achieve my goals. I will admit the first few visits where all directed towards my WW but we transitioned into what I am doing with my life and how things she is doing were affecting me. Your IC will not fix them! They are there to help you.
You've heard it a thousand times and it is so hard but you have to slowly start working on you. I was faking it 100% 2 months ago but slowly I am in a much better place. I feel I can let go now, I really can and it hurt like heck to think that a few weeks ago. But I am not dead neither are you, who knows how long we will live, we deserve to be happy...but it's not going to happen overnight.
H-50 W-48 T-19 M -18 S23, S14 BD - 5/9/2018 OM discovered 5/10/2018
In house sep - 8/18/2018 Rope drop 2/15/2019 R'ing since 3/15/2019
