Sounds like you are doing well- way to take charge! It's not being too assertive -it is being confident. Look at this as just an outing and go into it with an open mind with no expectations. I'm interested to see how this pans out- please keep us posted. Blessings!
M51 w50 T-20Yrs M-16Yrs S15- mad at W for not trying and giving up 1 Awesum dog BD 10/31/17 separate rooms 02/08/18 wife moved out 05/17/18