As she seems intent on staying in the FMH (and therefore keeping me on the mortgage) I have suggested that in order to keep the children rooted- as she has said she wants the children to stay in the FMH- that if I rent a 2 bed house nearby we could share custody on a "birdsnesting" basis whereby rather than the children leave the house each week and the upheaval that brings- we move around them, i.e. she has a bedroom in the rented property and stays there while I am in the FMH and vice versa. I thought this was a brilliant idea, but she has poured cold water on the idea- yet she bangs on about how she wants the best for the children.
She is likely to want a mesher order to prevent the house sale, which effectively would leave me in limbo for another 14 years!
M(41), W(37) S (6) D (4) S (2) M-8, T-12 W "I don't love you, I am in love with another man" "I don't know you anymore"
