Three weeks have passed and we still haven’t spoken. Only by texts. He comes and goes as he pleases with a text as he’s leaving. He does minimal jobs around the house. He isn’t eating with us. He comes home from work and just watches tv etc... but I run around doing everything. We work similar hours but he leaves before me but is home before me - if he comes home.
Last weekend it was my birthday so I took the children to the seaside to meet family he didn’t come. He didn’t wish me a happy birthday at all. I am running more, doing yoga, made plans to see friends but him coming and going as he chooses is very difficult to manage and make plans for me. I am trying to gal. I am on the edge of going crazy with him. I am stuck - I can’t go anywhere with 5 kids and I can’t make him leave - although I have asked.
One of the kids has learning needs and is playing up school a bit - I know it is this home situ but I can’t do anything to make it better.
The legal advice I’ve received is that I can't make him leave the house. I also have info about a legal in home separation.
Struggling to keep at this.......
M: 17 T:17 Me:42 H:48 BD 23/12/2017 H says ‘I don’t want to be married’ D 17 D 15, D 13, S 10, S 10
