I texted him about his birthday asking if he had plans. He said Yes he’s going to dinner with his mother and her fiancé. I said “Oh fun I was going to see if you wanted to come for dinner and (our daughter) was going to make you a cake” He responded We don’t have plans Sunday. (He has the kids Sunday and Monday ) I asked if he wanted to do it then and he sed Yes. Kind of shocked. He has had a huge wall up and usually makes excuses. This will be the first time he’s spent time at the house in a long time. Any advice for me ?? Obviously no relationship talk just try to stay positive - upbeat ?
Also , about 30 min later he randomly texted me telling me I should watch this new tv show he thinks I would like it. Very random for him to be texting me anything besides the kids. Maybe DB is working a little. Only time will tell. Feels a little good to know he actually thought about me for once. Perhaps his bday is making him sentimental.
