Husband cheated, left, trying hard to DB 3

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Kech,
Get another therapist!! My first MC 2 years ago help us work things out and get back together. But I think mostly it was just us wanting to stay married.

A few weeks ago WW went to her after BD. WW told therapist that I was still having problems dealing with the affair a few years ago. Therapist told WW we need to separate because I cant get over it. Therapist never gave us / me tools to deal with the aftermath of the affair.

I think DB book mentions to look for a therapist that is certified by American Association of Marriage and Family therapy. (Not sure of the name).
I found one an hour away that is definitely pro marriage. Seems kind of malpractice to make a decision the first meeting.