Agree with Bttrfly. Thank you so much all you contribute to the board, OneArt.

The legal aspect of this has been the most surprising. As an upright citizen, I’ve always been afraid of doing anything wrong, unjust or illegal. I abide by the rules and I take them seriously... my ex... not so much. I’ve been really surprised by how much he has “gotten away with.” There seems to be no repercussions for bad behavior (lies, withholding info, not abiding by the financial restraining orders) when it comes to family law in CA. I’m in the middle of my sitch.... so hopefully my opinion changes when we reach the end.

Thank you, again, for your contributions.


Me- 30's H- 40's
T-10 M-5
I moved out b/c he wanted space- June 15
D filed by H: September 16