You should tell her that it was a rotten thing to say. Loving her is not loving a dream and it is not something you did wrong. Your feelings are just hurt.
All the best. -NOPkins-
I will ferret out an affair at any opportunity.
-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect. -An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.