Just starting! Need some emotional support! #2

[Ready2Change]

This morning I told my W. "I know this as much of an uncomfortable topic for you as it is for me but in the very near future, we are going to have to have a conversation about our future. My shift assignment will be changing in a few months and depending on what we decide, will determine what assignment I will decide to put in for."

This is where the "Nice Guy" or "Bad Boy" question came from.

The Nice Guy: "Wife, what should we do?"
The bad boy: "Wife, I decided to accept XYZ position"

So if you were always the nice guy with Wife, 180 would be Bad Boy attributes.